Real M.E.N.

iight lets get this show on the road…dont pay attention to tha video i posted…its just some shit im listenin to while im writing this blog post…maybe yall can jam it while yall read


now i bet yall wonder why i gave this blog post a title like this…well me personally, im a very observant dude so i like to sit back and just peep things then come up with my own reasoning as to why tha shit happened…anywho, as we all know, the male gender is put in a very very dim light these days with statements like “all dudes are dogs”, “niggas aint shit”, and “all dudes are the same”….society makes it seem like men are “primary” cause of a vast majority of conflict between us and women and with me bein a male, its not just right and i dont exactly see it that way…we all know the old cliche “for every action, theres a reaction” right? so maybe its just somethin thats bein done to make us act the way we do at times that categorizes us in those statements earlier…Women hate to be tha blame for tha way a man acts but sometimes its just true…im not finna sit here and pin it all on women, but i think some of the actions yall are very unaware of are provokin your so called “typical male” to act in a way that comes off as very disrespectful but honestly some shit deserves it….fellas bare wit me because im bout to throw salt on our game, but it just needs to be done to make our women more aware of their “unintentional actions”


One “mistake” that women make that they are unaware of is letting a man know too much information about them too soon, or entertainin some subjects prematurely (sex to be exact)….you have to keep a man’s mind always wantin more…believe it or not, there are men that do exist who dont think wit their dicks off top because we are actually interested in gettin to kno that woman on a more personal level to see if somethin more can come from tha situation…of course we know you cant build anythin serious without a strong foundation to build on…now this is where most women fuck up, but its not your fault because yall dont know yall are messin up… as a male, i can admit to doin this and its just to see where the woman’s mind is…its kind of like a trap…but lets just say that if a male poses a sexual question in tha early stages of conversation, and you, the woman, politely avoids tha question with a simple “ummm we just met, you have to wait to get that kinda convo from me”…one of two things will happen, either tha male will stop talkin to you, or he will continue to converse with you possibly thinkin well maybe she just may be someone i need to pursue….BUT if that woman proceeds to engage in that convo, then as a male, all thoughts of tryin to build somethin wit that woman may quickly deminish because we as men will start thinkin to ourselves “man this finna be too easy, im a see if she all talk or is she really what that is”…then if that woman proceeds to get down for tha cause, then hey she has just fell victim to what we call “paddin tha stats”…and she will be just anotha chick who has just been ran thru

Let me touch on a couple more things before i go…we as males are very observant and curious, well at least i am so i guess i can only speak for myself…as a member of many social networks, and a person that does go out on some occasions, i always see some shit that makes me say wtf…did i really just see that for my own eyes?….did she really just say what i think she said?….and then as i pay closer attention, i then notice the kind of attention bein drawn toward that particular woman…most of tha time, its attention that is not wanted by that woman, but she gets it anyways because we as men react off impulse so if she puts herself out there, hell why not see wassup…basically what im tryin to say is ladies please take care of your image at all times and watch tha things you post on these sites…we understand that you may think you’re a “Bad Chick” physically, and have tha attitude to go along with it but there are other ways to be that “Bad Chick” aside from sayin all kind of outrageous shit and posin half nude in any of ya pics…tha same ones that do that be tha same ones who always complainin about “dudes bein so disrespectful” or “man these niggas aint shit”…and quite frankly, i wouldnt call it bein disrespectful but more like showin mutual respect….ladies you dont have to jump out of your character in order to get attention from a man because trust me…all attention isnt good attention…you can be a Bad Chick without showin all ya good and poppin off at tha mouth…real Bad Chicks be some of tha most humble, quiet, and fully dressed people in the world…then again some may just not be aware

These are just a few things i was just thinkin about so i decided to blog about…im just givin you women some insight of tha way males think and act…and again fellas i had to do it…REAL MEN wouldnt let this phase them tho #IMJUSTSAYING

- T Butta aka Quiet Storm