Real M.E.N.

Habits - Customary manner or practice. Customary - based on customs learned, long continued practices. Why am I defining these 2 elementary words? The word habit is often misused. A drug habit, smoking habit, sex habit; these are mere learned behaviors that the body has become acustom to due to repitition of them. Love. Love. Love. Love. Love. The more i type the word, the easier it becomes to do. If I type it everyday, it will establish a system. Even if it causes my fingers to ache and ache and ache, i still do it (habit). When ever I get tired of my fingers hurting everyday, only then can I say “forget this, Im done, this is stupid, i’m not typing this dumb word anymore.” I have to get completely, 100% (not 80% with a little hope), fed up to break a habit. Metaphor/Analogy explained: Women and men often blame their situations on the “cant help it”s. They often blame their situation on Love. HAHA, pardon my laugh. Below i have a scripture that defines love. God is Love, where there is no GOD there is no Love. In saying that, If you fall in like with someone who u think loves u, u are asking for trouble if there is no God in your decision. A habit has nothing to do with the other person. That is you thinking that the other person has something that u need, and he/she completes you. I dont buy into the idea of bad habits are hard to break. A habit is an idea of doing something over and over. Change the way you look at, and think about, the situation. If u see yourself getting hurt, get out, SIMPLE AND PLAIN. Using simple cliche, as scapegoat practices, causes you to believe in your mind that you really like physical and emotional pain. Do you? Kind of silly huh? Habits are hard to break?? You tell me the answer to that. Just my opinion, I.D.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres I Chorinthians 13.

- I.D.