Real M.E.N.

Since when did a lady opening the door for a man become unheard of? I know there is a notion that a good man is chivalrous, but what about a good woman? More times than not, by society, media, little nappy headed girls/ladies, a definition of a good man is created. But men, we never challenge the “goodness” of the ladies. Ever thought about what makes a lady a good lady? One thing about the man is that he is willing to try to get to know any lady he approaches. I think we need to start a way, or system that creates something for us to go by as fellas to be able to tell if the lady is a good lady or not. We are going to start a little something called the “The Measurement Points” (). It will consist of points, positive and negative, to tell if you should date to her or not…

Most men get caught up in attractiveness and singles out the more prettier girls. There is nothing wrong with the more prettier ladies but I can tell you from experience, Their attitudes suck! If you have an attractive female that you met somewhere like a grocery store, and she had on her full club attire, -7 (MPs) … Reason being, she is more concerned with getting attn than who her attn is going to.
Alot of guys also do not take time to look into the realistic signals. Ex:) One lady’s mother says “girrrlllll” every other word, daughter says “girrrlllll” every other word. This 9 times out of of 10 the young lady will be a spitting image of her mother. If the mother has bad spending habits, disrespectful to men, non-cooking tendencies, etc, the daughter most likely will. If you find the daughter acting exactly like her mother and you think the mother is mean as hell, -5 (MPs) She will most likely be the same way
If she smokes, - 15 (MPs) This is a heavy one because everyone knows that smoking causes cancer. It rots your teeth, and causes horrible breath. Idk about you guys but if I’m looking for a “good girl” meaning a potential life partner, I don’t need that smell in my clothes for the rest of my life…
A BIG ONE… A typical male has tunnel vision. A Real Male watches its surroundings. WATCH HER FRIENDS. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree and birds of a feather flock together…. I cannot stress this enough. If her friends are rowdy, nasty, silly, dumb, stupid, hers will come out one day… -10 (MPs) for her friends…
This is just a few of the points on the (MP) Scale. Hopefully The Brothers of the Real M.E.N. will shine the light on the nonsense that has plagued our relationships… Stay tuned, comment if you think of some things that should go on the (MP) scale…

-I.D.