December 2010
26 posts
Social Network Challenge...
Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, ie… All sites we know and love. My generation (18-25) has become social networking fanatics. In my opinion it has really put a damper on Relationships and Boy/Girl, face to face, interaction. Just recently I visited a bar to watch a football game. I was actually surprised. When the game was on everyone was watching it, as expected; but when the commercials came...
Words From The Wise
I asked my grandmother was she ever afraid of failing? She replied with a look on her face that I never seen her make before and said “NO, why live your life if you don’t want to achieve your goals. Son always AIM for the moon, at least if you fall short, you’ll land amongst the stars. You don’t ever want to be 60 or 70 years old asking yourself what IF I did this or...
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WatchBefore you read ahead, please take time to watch the music videos above by Keri Hilson and Raheem DeVaughn. “Wow”. That was the only word that I could muster to say after watching both videos by each artist. Both are sexual, straight-forward, and creative in their own right. However, each was received differently by the public. Keri Hilson’s “The Way You Love Me”...
ARE YOU MY WONDER WOMAN
“I NEED A SUPER-KIND OF WOMAN BESIDE ME” TREY SONGZ
This question can be answered in so many ways but I’m speaking for myself. the biggest thing that I look for when it comes to a girlfriend is someone who is going to give me a challenge. I mean who doesn’t like a challenge. The game is no fun when it’s no competition. Because whether you believe it or not, this is...
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Payin' For It..
“Payin’ For It”. No matter how sweet or “Playa” a dude claims his game is, he has/will “Paid for It” atleast once in his life. Some men have no shame in admitting this, hence the phrase “It ain’t trickin if you got it”. It’s inevitable. Am I downgrading these individuals, not at all, I’ve been guilty of it too. But I...
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A Broken Heart
A Broken Heart When your heart is broken, It’s a deep and lingering feeling; Like your heart is in a thousand pieces, Each regretful and slow healing. When you lose the one you Love, You try hard to get them back; Like trying to catch a fluttering feather, While the spring winds oppose your grasp. Contrary to ones’s beliefs, A busy mind does wonder; During you mind’s...
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Hidden Motives
Every now and again its good to question yourself to actually see where your head is from time to time… Why am i doin tha things im doin? What benefits am i gainin from my actions? Whos life besides mine will have a direct impact from my decisions? Am i goin about this the right way? The definition of Motive(s) provided by Websters Doctionary is “Something(s) (as a need or desire) that...
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I'll Pay..
First off let me say, I enjoy giving my lady friend the nicest of gifts whenever I am able to. There is nothing wrong with showering my lady friend with nice things, right? Question: If I cannot provide the things she likes will the relationship suffer? I think one reason why successful black ladies relationship numbers are down is because of the gift giving factor. Speaking solely as a man,...
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Trading Places
”..Today we going shopping blowing 30 on me, make it 60, spend it like you really love me. You order Chinese food right before you do me..” - Usher The lyrics above are from a mid-uptempo, seductive, role-playing track off Usher’s 2008 platinum album ‘Here I stand’ entitled “Trading Places”. The song is sexual invitation to his lover that suggests they...
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Courtin'
Peeped ya’ from afar floatin’ oh so gracefully As if your moves were directed by none other than spike lee Patiently waiting for the opportune time to say hi Hesitant and shy I stop you as you pass by Hand extended with a nervous smile Had to catch myself, got lost in your eyes for a while I’m Sean and you are? You reply ever so softly With a sensual voice Beauty of a goddess, epidermis like...
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A Letter To Katrina
This is dedicated to all the people that were affected my Hurricane Katrina.
Y’all remember what happened on August 29, 2005, cause I do. That’s the day Hurricane Katrina touched down on the Big Easy, but it came down O’so hard. The same day the levees so called broke, the same day all the laughter and joy that surrounded the city became no joke. The same city where it took...
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Black Is Beautiful But Crazy
I’m off the lovey dubey shit. This just a little something I wanted to talk about. Read it and Love It
I have a mom, four sisters, aunts, and friends. So I know black women inside and out and from what I know and have heard, y’all are a very different type of species. A type who gets mad over a LOCKED PHONE or gets mad when your guy wants to do something with his friends. For...
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A Woman's Mistake
iight lets get this show on the road…dont pay attention to tha video i posted…its just some shit im listenin to while im writing this blog post…maybe yall can jam it while yall read now i bet yall wonder why i gave this blog post a title like this…well me personally, im a very observant dude so i like to sit back and just peep things then come up with my own reasoning as...
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A Sea Of Emotions
Just expressing my thoughts and feelings, nothing else. I am not a poet by any stretch of the imagination, I’m only testing the waters. However, if anyone identifies with this then that’s great. It let’s me know I’m not going through Life’s lessons alone.
ASeaOfEmotions Empty, Routine, Loveless; that’s what we have become And You seem unphased, but this...
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Only According to the Bible...Part 1
I know this is not the normal style conversation that I give to my audience but this is really important… Biblical Knowledge: If you have sexual relations your soul becomes tied to that person who you have slept with, in marriage or outside of marriage. (1 Cor 6:16- ) “We are just having fun” , a phrase too commonly used among my generation. One night stands, friends with...
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Chances Are..
Chances What are chances? Who knows because i sure don’t. Women give men too many chances, true? Are relationships about taking a chance, yes or no? These are questions i cannot answer. Chances are, many people cant answer either. When a man cheats who’s to blame? This is my definition of chance: When you decide to go out and hope a great guy takes a chance with you, you care...
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Let's Talk About Sex...Part 2
Weeks were passing, phone conversations became shorter and texts weren’t as frequent. I was partying and drinking more, staying out later. Now I’ve seen women before that I’ve found attractive and intriguing, but my intentions or fantasies would never leave the corners of my mind. For the first time in our relationship I had a single man’s mentality. “Who is...
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Habits defined
Habits - Customary manner or practice. Customary - based on customs learned, long continued practices. Why am I defining these 2 elementary words? The word habit is often misused. A drug habit, smoking habit, sex habit; these are mere learned behaviors that the body has become acustom to due to repitition of them. Love. Love. Love. Love. Love. The more i type the word, the easier it becomes...
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Let's Talk About Sex..Part 1
Sex. Sex. SEX! It’s on the radio, television, in magazines, political scandals, and even used as a spring board to catapult into stardom (Kim Kardashian, Kat Stacks, eg). It’s everywhere. As a marketing tool sex is a solid foundation and driving force, but does that go the same for relationships? Remember they are only marketing what we as a society want, marketing what keeps us...
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Why Do Fools Fall In Like?
”..Like a premie out the womb, My partner yellin “Too soon! Don’t do it! Reconsider! Read some litera - ture on the subject..” -Andre 3K Lately more and more young adults are getting married, tying the knot. It’s the new trend, these words are being echoed everywhere: “Girl I’m married!!” All of them under the impression that they’re In love. WRONG!! You’re just heavily in Like. Half of...
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Love Is...
“Love aint love no matter how heart shaped it is…” -Joe Budden What is Love? Lately I’ve been hearing people say all the right things about their relationships and how their sooooo in Love, but these peoples actions don’t line up with those words. I’ve seen it too many times even in my own experiences…I’ve learned that now a days people use the word too loosely so the meaning of the word...
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Double Standards, Part UNO
Since when did a lady opening the door for a man become unheard of? I know there is a notion that a good man is chivalrous, but what about a good woman? More times than not, by society, media, little nappy headed girls/ladies, a definition of a good man is created. But men, we never challenge the “goodness” of the ladies. Ever thought about what makes a lady a good lady? One thing about the man...
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Judging A Book By It's Cover
Question: Why is it when a lady, mostly African American women, meets a guy she tries to figure out all the reasons she cant talk to him before she ever thinks about talking to him? Lets face it we all judge, we’re not suppose to and everyone claims not to but we do, it’s human nature. With that being said I believe women are the more judgmental sex, especially in dating. Don’t agree?? Beg to...